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Laudana
Laudana has been working mainly as a documentary and TV producer,
writer and director since the mid-1980s.
Sexuality has been fascinating her since early adolescence. Especially
the concealed aspects of sexuality have always been of special interest
for her. She is interested in exploring and even transgressing
boundaries, and regards this as a fundamental expression of human
existance which ultimatly does not allow for compromises.
How
far are people willing to go, how do they live their sexuality – both
alone and with others? Control, submission, devotion, pain, desire –
the libido as life drive.
She loves playing with the elementary, with the obvious, with distance
and closeness.
Workshops
BDSM - Coming Out
Out of the closet! Or… “Yipee, I am a pervert!”
Everyone
lives S/M in a different way. Some do it secretly, even without their
partner knowing about it; others do it openly. Realizing it yourself is
always the first step before coming out to others.
My own coming out was late, rapid and concentrated.
In
hindsight it became clear to me that S/M has always been relevant to me
in various ways. I just never realized it… And now I am a pervert.
Disorder of sexual preference no. F 65.5, according to the WHO. That is
okay with me.
This is what my workshop is about.
I would like to find out and to share with you how this first
realization came about. And what, in turn, was touched off by that. How
you dealt with this newly discovered side of yourself, and how you deal
with it today – for yourself, but also with others. Do you join the
“scene”? If so, which one? Do you choose new lovers always according to
whether or not they are a good match regarding S/M? How do your sexual
preferences affect other parts of your life? Did you or do you have any
feelings of guilt or fear? What part does the internet play in all
this?
Participants should be ready to share these personal and, by all means,
emotional experiences, and take pleasure in doing so. Interesting
stories, new aspects and points of view lead us to re-position
ourselves in new ways, to re-discover both familiar and new aspects of
ourselves, and maybe to find even more pleasurable ways of dealing with
our own little, big, mean, funny and exhilerating “perversions”…
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